I must say, 2018 is off to a good start! 2017 wasn’t bad to us, but it had a very rough start with all of us being sick, then me having pneumonia, then Jeff having hernia surgery…I feel like we didn’t really “start” our year until late April! This year, thanks to Josh being on antibiotics since last week, we’re all healthy and ready to start 2018 with a fresh start!
A high school friend and fellow blogger said it best on her blog yesterday: “I feel like life hit the reset button.” Yep. I know the shimmer and hope of the new year will fade away quickly once the daily routine sets back in, but for now: hello sunshine! Hello plans to be a more patient and understanding mother! Hello home projects! Hello plans to be more adventurous! Hello goal setting (more date nights, more family quality time, more, more more..)! And maybe most importantly…hello new planner! :-P
And I must say…2018 started off great. I accepted a last minute job for a New Year’s Eve wedding (I actually had a ceremony on Saturday, a ceremony on Sunday morning, and coordinated this wedding on Sunday night-yeah!), so I didn’t get to ring in the New Year with Jeff, and wasn’t in bed until 2:00 a.m. Which….for me…is REALLY late. However, my internal clock is awful to me, so I was still awake by 6:30 a.m….but refused to let myself get out of bed. Jake came to our bed and after I wished him a happy new year he said “Happy New Year to you too!” which just sounded so adorable. Jeff has always been great about taking care of the boys in the morning after I work a late wedding, so he took Josh to the kitchen once Josh started yelling at us: “Eat! Eat! EAT!!!”
Jake had fallen back asleep, and when he woke up he said “Wake up mommy, it’s a beautiful day!” *swoon* I heard Jeff making coffee, which: OMG. I’m the daily coffee maker in the house, and it’s always SO GREAT when someone else makes it. I was a little surprised he didn’t bring me a cup of coffee once it was done (I know I’m spoiled, he’s amazing), but figured Josh was keeping him busy. A few minutes later I hear Josh coming down the hallway, and then Jeff walked in with a breakfast tray. Yes ladies and gentlemen (gentleman?), there were happy tears. I love breakfast. I love when I don’t have to make breakfast (which isn’t often since I’m always up before everyone else). This was huge. Of course, I had to share with a certain someone who wouldn’t keep his grubby hands off my food…
He’s cute enough that I shared.
We then started cleaning up all our Christmas decor, and taking the ornaments off our tree was the perfect family “teamwork” scenario that is now starting to happen a little more frequently as Joshy gets older. Jeff was in charge of getting the ornaments off the tree, then he’d had them to Josh (unless they were super fragile…c’mon, we’re not idiots), who would hand them to Jake, who would hand them to me for packing and storage. We were done in record time and my heart was so happy. Josh wasn’t happy about me putting this guy in a box though:
As a side note: I’ve had that reindeer since I was nine years old, when my mom sent it to me when I was spending a Christmas in Guatemala with my grandmother.
We then grabbed lunch, then Home Depot for some home project supplies and way too many plants.
Jake has been SO EXCITED to have his cousin in town <3.
We went back home and got to work. Jake was helping me with some plants, and I don’t know if it was the lighting, or the solace of this moment alone with him, but he just looked so perfect and beautiful and I wanted to capture that moment forever. He had mentioned earlier to me that one day he was going to get bigger and have to leave me and go on his own (we’ve had these conversations before), and we both said how we would miss each other, so maybe having that at the forefront of my mind made me extra emotional: my little guy is growing up so fast! So I had to capture the moment.
Jake also helped daddy take down the Christmas lights, which has become a tradition of theirs:
The older boys went and got ice cream while Joshy and I took a nap. Then Jake come home super upset because daddy didn’t pick the flowers Jake wanted for grandma, so we talked it out and he decided to buy her the flowers he wanted with this own money. We opened up his piggy bank (which is actually a Chase Paw Patrol bank…) and went back to Ralphs so he could pick his flowers. I then took him to Starbucks and we had some nice quality time together, which I’ve been wanting for so long.
We rounded up the evening having dinner with grandma Linda, grandpa, and Brayden, to celebrate grandma’s birthday. It was the perfect ending to the perfect first day.
We’re ready for you, 2018!